Jul 4 Sacramento
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More Lesbian Kissing?
Published: September 8, 2005

SANTA ANA, Calif.—A lesbian student claims in a lawsuit that Garden Grove school officials suspended her several times and forced her to temporarily transfer to another campus because she refused their orders to stop hugging and kissing her girlfriend on school grounds.

In the federal court lawsuit filed Wednesday, 17-year-old Charlene Nguon also alleges that a school principal told her parents of her sexual orientation and disciplined her while allowing similar behavior by heterosexual couples.

Her behavior was not prohibited in the school handbook, she claims.

“It was horrible. I was discriminated against by the administrators,” said Nguon, who is represented by the ACLU and filed the suit with her mother and the Gay-Straight Alliance Network club.

Alan Trudell, a spokesman for the Garden Grove Unified School District said that “the district does not engage in discriminatory practices.” He declined further comment, saying officials had not seen the lawsuit.

Nguon alleges that her grades, once straight A’s, fell after she was forced last March to transfer from Santiago High School to Bolsa Grande High School _ a move that increased her commute from a short walk to a 4 1/2-mile bike ride.

“Unfortunately, for Principal Ben Wolf and other staff at Santiago High, all of Charlene’s accomplishments and exemplary qualities are overshadowed by one fact: that she is a lesbian,” the lawsuit alleges.

Wolf and other district officials, through Trudell, declined to comment.

Nguon has been allowed to return to Santiago High for the current school year.

The suit seeks unspecified damages, an admission that the district violated Nguon’s civil rights and a policy change preventing officials from disciplining students because of their sexual orientation.

Reader's Comments
"I love hardcore lesbian sex"
-> Posted by syd / Oct 13, 2007
"HEY WATS UP IM DOING A REPORT AS WE SPEAK ON THIS #### AND THESE MUTHA ####### ARE TELLING ME A 22 YEAR WOMAN THAT I CANT KISS MY WOMAN IN SCHOOL I ATTEND CHATTANOOGA STATE AND I BE DAM IF ANYONE CAN MAKE ME STOP BEING ME I HAVE TRIED TO BE WITH A MAN HAD KIDS (3 proud parent) IN MY HEART IT WAS A BUNCH OF BS I REFUSE TO BE IMPRESSing PEOPLE ALL I KNOW IS THEY CAN KISS MY ASS. THE LOVE OF MY LIFE A.L.B SHORTY B FROM MEMPHIS TENN I LOVE YOU BABY AND WILL NEVER STOP THANKS FOR MAKING ME HAPPY"
-> Posted by Brittany Robinson / Oct 11, 2007
"i am a lesbian and proud too. but i live in a small community i know that if i were to have kissed my girlfriend the skool wouldn't do anything but EVERYONE would talk and discrimination against gays needs to stop. WE ARE THE NORM!!! its the 21st century. get over yourself! i love my girlfriend!!!"
-> Posted by mariah / Oct 01, 2007
"how do you know if ur gay"
-> Posted by celene d / Sep 21, 2007
"i am having trouble with my sexuality!!but i think if they want to kiss in public they can!!some people need to mind there on damn buisness..if you can help me me with my sexuality or if you wanna date then send me an e-mail..its saphire_hottie16@yahoo.com!!i hottie is speaking literally..l.o.l"
-> Posted by confused / Apr 08, 2007
"wat wrong 4 d les?? v stil r human. v must don care wat they say, b alwiz happy n proud of les....p('o')q"
-> Posted by dax / Feb 10, 2007
"i think if u truely lik/love sum1 den u should b wit dem..no matta what ur gender is..i dont really kno if i myself am bi or not..i kinda need sum kinda help that..but if u want to help me figure that out plz write me..n ill write u back..brokenheartof2006@yahoo.com"
-> Posted by midnight / Feb 09, 2007
"i am lesbian,,,,,but im not sure still...i have a girlfriend for three years,,,,,why do people discriminate what we have i mind?"
-> Posted by zen / Nov 27, 2006
"No person has the humen right to say that hetro it better then homo . i am not les but some of my friends are . and they would be wonderful teachers or parents. I understand that some people think they should not have kids . but why in hell cant they teach ? what are they going to do ? Tell a child to be gay ? well then stra8 ppls should not teach either cause they could tell a child that is gay or les to be str8 ! . then you go back to descrimenation witch i hope everyone knows is wrong !!!"
-> Posted by Nicole / Jul 08, 2006
"hi my name s chelsea and i am a lesbian have been for 7 years now i am 17 and i am proud to be a lesbian so this is all i have to say to all the other bi and lesbians is that be proud of what you are don't let anyone tell you different ok because i have been in fights i have had ppl hurt me and #### and i im still here and still a lesbian so if anyone would like to talk to me my yahoo is life_and_death_for_ever or my msn lacuna_coil_freak@hotmail.com"
-> Posted by chelsea / Jul 02, 2006
"be gay
be gay
be gay
be gay
gays are taking over!!!"
-> Posted by Shaina / May 30, 2006
"i have been out 4ever.{20+yrs}.i love kissing a my babie girl everwhere,anywhere.people stop 2 watch.that just turns me on more. they just wish they had these lips!"
-> Posted by loadsoffun4hours@yahoo.com / May 23, 2006
"I am 15 years old and i have been a lesbiean since i was 12 and i know people in my family dont aproove of it but regardless im going to be me so thats that but at the same time most of my family dont noke me because the love me. m single so all you ladies halla at elmo okay dark skin 5/4 125 red and black hair shoulder length cut but im gone cut it shorter so do halla. good day everyone"
-> Posted by Elmo / May 10, 2006
"its good"
-> Posted by jasmin / Apr 08, 2006
"im a lesbian and im proud of it"
-> Posted by amber / Apr 02, 2006
"I myself am a bisexual that has been married to a guy for 3 years, ut I agree that discrimination is bullshit. When I was dating one of my last girlfriends when I was a senoir, the school would not give us the discount for buy one get one free prom tickets that the straight couples got and I can't even count the times that we were singled out for PDA when one of my best straight friends was making out almost right next to us."
-> Posted by Amanda Greathouse / Mar 31, 2006
"I'm a lesbian and all I have to say is that if you're happy then you're happy...whether it's with men, women, or dogs.... be true to yourself and don't worry about the ignorant people... love y'all <3"
-> Posted by Nikki / Mar 24, 2006
"I think if straight people can kiss in public then why can't gays or lesbians? I MEAN we ARE free country ARN'T we? I guess not if you can't kiss your boyfriend or girlfriend in public. I mean come on now! MORE POWER TO YOU GUYS YOU GO YOU ROCK!!! hehe"
-> Posted by Brittney / Mar 22, 2006
"the feeling of the same sex comes naturally without being forced. evert human have the right to love and be loved. yes, my religion is against it but i have to fight for my love right?? what is life without hapiness?? we shud be more open on les and gays !"
-> Posted by nana / Mar 08, 2006
"i agree with you there"
-> Posted by chelsea / Mar 03, 2006
"yea im a lesbian i love it to even though every one is aginst it parents school church i dont give a **** and im going to be me"
-> Posted by joni / Mar 03, 2006
"ok all i have to say about being lesbian is i sould have the rights to do everything that a straigt person is aloud to do and i have noproblem with kissing my gf out in the open and i love the fact that i can i don't give a #### what ppl think about me"
-> Posted by chelsea / Feb 24, 2006
"i love to be with girls"
-> Posted by jessica / Feb 24, 2006
"I have been a lesbian for 5 years and i don't care what people think of me i am really nice and everyone likes the fact that i was open with my self my parents know that i am gay and they told me that they wouldn't care what i was because i am there daughter and all i have to say about it is that i love being a lesbian"
-> Posted by chelsea / Feb 15, 2006
"i like it very much"
-> Posted by sonia / Feb 11, 2006
"im a lesbian i dont care
if strait people can then we can"
-> Posted by jamie / Feb 04, 2006
"well girls are sexy who does'nt wanna have a chance"
-> Posted by shay / Jan 27, 2006
"u will know it if you yourself feel it.. i mean, how can u say it's somthing that is totally wrong, however it is true that the thing is actually against the rules of some religions, but i myself had liked girls.. but it's juz a precious feeling that u can't get rid off.. how if the thing happened to any of us, we'd probably act d same,rite? giv her a chance, or probably she had to change.. it's her choice afterall..."
-> Posted by ratz / Jan 22, 2006
"i think we should be able to kiss in public with a guy or a girl because we should have the same rights."
-> Posted by sara / Jan 12, 2006
"im a lesbian too..im small built and my gerlfren is twice my size..ppl curse and stare but i dont give a damn..but im a malay muslim..its a shame to my religion,but i cant help it.. kudos to them who are willing to 'come out'..all the best"
-> Posted by ejai81 / Jan 05, 2006
"its ok to be homosexual. i give power 2 charlene & her girlfriend. if they wanna make out in public, they should be alowed to. im kind of a lesbian myself and im lookin 4 a girlfriend if anyones interestedwink. (u gotta be sexy, passionate, HOT!!!, and ok w/ bein a lesbian)"
-> Posted by PHUNKY / Dec 16, 2005
"i myself am a lesbian and if i was out in public and kissing my girlfriend and people had a problem with it i would tell them to go #### off and go #### themselves because i don't give a #### about other people's opinions about me kissing another woman in public and i also don't give a #### whether or not people approve of me being myself. so any haters can all just piss off."
-> Posted by iona / Dec 05, 2005
"From my point - There is truly nothing wrong with being gay. If your happy, Why does it really matter? Hopefully someday the world will consist a little less of the narrow minded people who make truth so difficult. Love is what it is. Best Wishes to all."
-> Posted by Erin / Dec 02, 2005
"Never discriminate against homosexuals. They are human beings too."
-> Posted by Jesse / Nov 18, 2005
"heres wut i think.no 1 knows a person better than thier own self so wut makes sum1 else think that they know whats best 4 them.y dont u start by fixing ur own life instead of messing with mine and until uve walked n my shoes.that stone u cast better not get past ur own toes.i dont say u have 2 b gay so dont say i have 2b str8.i can have PDA if u can.i can get married if u can.i can have babies if u can.we r not prioritized if were making a big statement over gays when its ok 2 have abortions"
-> Posted by jessica / Nov 10, 2005
"It's okay to be homosexual.You shouldn't be ashamed to kiss people of your gender."
-> Posted by Aprille / Oct 29, 2005
"What happen World?? Love is love no matter what"
-> Posted by Vivi / Sep 26, 2005
"CHARLENE NGUON SHOULD FEEL FORTUNATE THAT THAT IS ALL THAT HAPPENED TO HER..MAYBE SHE SHOULD CONSIDER NOT REVEALING HER ORIENTATION NEXT TIME OR PERHAPS GOING BACK TO HER OWN COUNTRY

SHE'S DISGUSTING...HOPEFULLY SHE WILL CONCENTRATE IN SCHOOLING AND NOT THIS NONSESNE SHE IS INVOLVED IN...

PLEASE TELL HER I POSTED THIS..."
-> Posted by JOE / Sep 25, 2005
"An abortion on nature? Where'd you get that line...some Urban Outfitters tshirt? Homosexuality's as natural as your horrendous grammar; It has been in existence since animals walked the earth. Gays are as capable of raising & teaching kids. What possibly could kids be confused with? That red is blue and the fire hydrant is actually Jesus? Gender roles are less defined as we move towards equality. By your argument, fathers shouldn't cook & mothers shouldn't be in the workforce."
-> Posted by David / Sep 24, 2005
"everyone has the right to show affection towards eachother, INCLUDING homosexuals. why is it that hetersexuals can do it but not homosexuals ? and rarely does a person adopt from another gay/lesbian couple, it doesnt change their sexual orientation"
-> Posted by Phuong / Sep 23, 2005
"Everyone has the same right to be on this planet as everyone else. Gays should be allowed to get married ect if they so choose. What they should NOT be allowed to do is teach children in our schools or adopt children under ANY circumstances. Children need to grow up in a mentally and sexual correct and stable environment. Children are influential at that age and can become confused easily. Homosexuality is an abortion of nature by its very definition."
-> Posted by desnt matter / Sep 23, 2005
"i hate people who discriminate against homosexuals. they should burn in the sun"
-> Posted by Phuong / Sep 12, 2005
"Come on charmayne, its not that nasty is it? Something about your comment screamed out to me, "in the closet."

nowadays, its ok to be gay!"
-> Posted by Peewee / Sep 11, 2005
"I agree with Eric. My only problem is that at 62 years old I am not getting it and it irritates me to see overt displays of affection in public"
-> Posted by a veteran / Sep 10, 2005
"This should be completely against the law, unless the girls are hot."
-> Posted by Eric / Sep 09, 2005
"thats gotta be nasty to kiss your own kind of sex gender..thats nasty...."
-> Posted by charmayne / Sep 09, 2005
"i dont want to kiss a girl my self but more power to them and i go to santiago and i love it but not the adminastation"
-> Posted by katrina / Sep 08, 2005
"i loved it"
-> Posted by alli / Sep 08, 2005
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